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My healing program for courageous women who want to recover from the trauma of their relationship with their difficult mother, using a mix of psychology, neuroscience, trauma-informed practices and sisterhood.

If you are wanting to understand how your mother wound affects you in a safe space, with a little support from me, my Tea Roses Self-Study Course is a great way to supercharge your healing.

The next intake starts on 19th June 2023!

Interested in getting personalised support to heal your mother wound and childhood trauma so that you can find emotional freedom and feel more confident and calm in your life? This is for you.

ARE YOU READY TO DISCOVER YOUR WORTH?

Come and join our relaxed October retreat as we discover your worth and the power of loving yourself unconditionally, how it affects your relationship with your Self and others, and what you can do to heal the conditional love dynamics in your life.

Having a challenging and frustrating mum often means from an early age we experience:

• Control
• Criticism
• Competition
• Emotional absence

When this happens we learn love coes with conditions, we are not loved for who we are but for what we can do or how we mmake others feel.

This conditional love becomes how we relate to the world, the people in it, and most importantly how we love and experience ourselves.

Discovering how conditional love has affected you and the tools and techniques you can use to heal it will help you to realise your true worth, feel more secure in your relationships, use healthy ways of relating, and leave you feeling happier and more in control of your life.

BOOK NOW as there are limited spaces available

On working with the power of unconditonal love:

"What I'm discovering is that I'm more "me" without her. More courageous, more present, more witty, more happy, more balanced, more joyous, more loving, more loved.... the list goes on. This all about the gain. The loss doesn't exist for me, she was never there ♥️"

Yvette x

On working with me:

"Her guidance is that of a loving and caring friend who understands, has experienced and knows how betraying and confusing a dysfunctional mother/child relationship can be. And who has an amazing ability to see your hurt and support you as you stumble, stagger, and leap along this never-ending path of learning acceptance and how to give the love we deserve.

From the bottom of my heart.

Thank you Charlotte. xxx"

Helen

On using what you learn about unconditional love:

We began by looking at Claire's mindset, specifically the limiting belief her mum had created that love was conditional on Claire complying.

It was a lightbulb moment for Claire she realised that she had assumed that's how love was, after all, this way of being was normalised from her birth. She could also recognise other areas of her life like her friendships and romantic relationships, where this belief was present, this was a revelation to her.

During our time together we worked on changing this limiting belief, which had a knock on effect at home and at work. By the time she finished her inner work with me:

She had stepped out of her guilt and shame.

She had healthier relationships with her friends.

She had started a romantic relationship that was based on unconditional love.

Her mum was no longer able to control and shame her and she had coping mechanisms to deal with mum's threats of rejection (which happened a lot less frequently because it no longer worked on Claire).

In Claire's words: "Working on my mindset and limiting beliefs with Charlotte has really allowed me to live my life for me. I no longer have sleepless nights, get upset about my mum, and that horrible endless feeling of guilt has gone. I'd recommend her work to anyone with a difficult mother, Charlotte is just so easy to talk to."

Claire